Comments on: Are YOU Responsible For Your Marriage Problems? http://worldvillage.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-marriage-problems A village of you. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 04:51:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: jessica http://worldvillage.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-marriage-problems/comment-page-1#comment-6556 jessica Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:31:44 +0000 http://www.worldvillage.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-marriage-problems#comment-6556 Hello I have to say my husband has been abusive and had drug problems b 4 we got married i told my mother about my problems and my husband knows i told her about them. then i saw that it didnt help i got married and my husband got into deep drug problems we live with our inlaws when i found out after he got caught i told my inlaws about our problems money issues gambling issues. he has been experiencing allot of withdrawels and felt like i needed to let them know what was going on. after wards i would feel so so guilty about it feeling like such a betrayer and afraid i wont get his trust back did i make a big mistake. He was abusive and i was going crazy and needed support his parents helped me but now i feel so guilty guilt tears me apart. please help Hello
I have to say my husband has been abusive and had drug problems b 4 we got married i told my mother about my problems and my husband knows i told her about them. then i saw that it didnt help i got married and my husband got into deep drug problems we live with our inlaws when i found out after he got caught i told my inlaws about our problems money issues gambling issues. he has been experiencing allot of withdrawels and felt like i needed to let them know what was going on. after wards i would feel so so guilty about it feeling like such a betrayer and afraid i wont get his trust back did i make a big mistake. He was abusive and i was going crazy and needed support his parents helped me but now i feel so guilty guilt tears me apart.
please help

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]]> By: jo http://worldvillage.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-marriage-problems/comment-page-1#comment-3688 jo Sat, 25 Apr 2009 16:58:52 +0000 http://www.worldvillage.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-marriage-problems#comment-3688 Have been married 18 years and 22 yrs together with 3 children. Quite a bit has happened just the past couple of months for our family life. But our marraige has never been a communicative kind, meaning we just cannot talk without pinning blame, or walking out of room, never really able to solve any probs for the fact that my partner will not admit and or try to come to a solution unless threats are made. Funny how you can love with all your heart and soul but if and when things comeup, NOTHING is said or DONE to fix or try to come to a agreement for our selves. It scares me so to go with life without my husband, but seems like unless I dont agree with him I am the temper lying hard person that always is my fault. Even with all the admissions of wrong doing and or thinking, Somehow it still slways is turned around to always be because of me (MY fAULT) Have been married 18 years and 22 yrs together with 3 children. Quite a bit has happened just the past couple of months for our family life. But our marraige has never been a communicative kind, meaning we just cannot talk without pinning blame, or walking out of room, never really able to solve any probs for the fact that my partner will not admit and or try to come to a solution unless threats are made. Funny how you can love with all your heart and soul but if and when things comeup, NOTHING is said or DONE to fix or try to come to a agreement for our selves. It scares me so to go with life without my husband, but seems like unless I dont agree with him I am the temper lying hard person that always is my fault. Even with all the admissions of wrong doing and or thinking, Somehow it still slways is turned around to always be because of me (MY fAULT)

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