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Let’s face it, it might seem like a daunting task to ask the girl you like out on a date. Gathering the courage to walk up to her and ask if she’d like to join you for something. Well have no fear because after reading this how-to guide to asking a girl out, you’ll be a pro. Of course I would recommend you practice asking your mom or sister out for example, to make sure you don’t goof when you ask the girl you really like to go out with you.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what you want to ask the girl out for. Do you want to take her out to the movies, to a restaurant for some of her favorite food (you’ll need to find out what that is before you take her to some spicy food place that will give her indigestion!), to a skating rink, a school dance, a party at a friends’ place, and the list goes on.
Once you know where you want to ask her to go, consider your choice again: will be enjoy watching a live football game with you, while you’re shouting beside her about a referee’s decision? If you think she will be happy to join you for a romantic dinner by candlelight, then great. The reason this is so important is that she might actually want to go out with you, but she might just not be interested in the activity you chose to inviting her to. If she rejects you, you might never have the guts to ask her out again, so don’t make a silly mistake like this one.
Next you need to practice asking her out. This is a very important technique that will really help you to keep your cool when you go up to the girl of your dreams and ask her to join you for a date. Think of what she looks like, how pretty she is, how nice it will be when she says yes to proposition. Whatever you do, don’t think of what might happen if she says no! Just go over how you’re going to ask her out, what you will say, how she will reply and remember to smile. Smiling is something that can be shared between people and it greatly increases the bonds between friends or even strangers. Now that you’ve pictured yourself successfully asking your new girlfriend out, practice out loud. I don’t care if this is embarrassing, if you really want to make sure this girl respects you and says yes to your question, then you need to practice asking her out.
You can ask your mom or sisters to practice with you. She might be able to give you some pointers as to what you should be doing, maybe you shouldn’t fidget with your hands in your pockets and try not to stutter. Once you have some feedback you should go back to practicing a bit more. After you know exactly what you’re going to say and you’ve anticipated what the girl of your dreams will say back to you (make sure she says yes in your fantasies!), then it’s time to prepare a real plan. Find out where she hangs out, when she has free time and when would be the best time for you to ask her out. Now just execute the visual movie you had in your mind, and things will go smoothly.
Remember that she might not actually respond exactly like you had imaged, be prepared for that. Just go with the flow, and be ready to smile widely when she says yes. Now you can ask your new date what she would prefer to do, and if the time of your choice works well for her. That’s it! Once you have practiced enough times, the courage will come naturally and you’ll be asking your girl out in no time. Be sure to treat your new lady friend well, because she didn’t accept to go on a date with you for no reason!
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yo guys i need sm tips im in a @#$%in hole this chick is gorgeous an i relly like her ive tryed to ask her out but every time im about to, her friends comes over or i get nervous an breakdown EVEN WHEN WERE ALONE!!! i dont know what wrong with me i got everything a girl wants but the courage to ask her out please send me sm tips my e-mails
address@removedOh and by the way i like a girl named shelby to evan... and my names kevin! what a coencedence. But seriously guys just go for it you just never know you might be surprised! p.s. if your really shy like me... use that to your advantage. be nice to her and maybe smile a few times. if you have atallent like being good at drawing for example... draw a really good picture and make sure she sees you drawing it in class. she will be like "wow thats so good" either start a conversation with her about it or just look up at her and smile. if she smiles back then she probably likes you.(or she just likes your talent)
GUYS, GUYS, GUYS!!! confidence is the key here... she will admire you if shes shy for being brave (though she might be nervous) she will admire you. And if she's not shy she will admire you as well. Look, i had the same problem and not to scare you, but no matter what or who you are... you will eventually be rejected. if its the very first girl your asking out you will learn from the experience even if she says no. I've been rejected but I've also been excepted. The best thing to do is to at least talk to her for a couple of minutes before you make your move. If she's shy and you think she likes you, go for it! just go for it! she may actually like you and say yes. of course if shes to shy she may be unsure, thats when you get to talken to her and then ask her out again after a few weeks. Trust me it works!!! GOOD LUCK
i like this girl named shelby, ive known her for 2 years, we dont talk to much... i just need HELP on how to go up and ask her out.
HELLO I NEED HELP HERE!!!!!!, i want to ask this girl who i know to be my girlfriend but im really shy and she doent know me that well im 16 and need to know how to do this !
wade. just go up 2 her and say sumfin like u are hot lets hav sex (wen her frends rnt there) and shell let u i know it sounds stupid but it works
i am i lack confidence btw, my problem is the same as this wade guys
ive fancied this girl for a long time and she keeps getting prettier each year so it gets harder and harder for me to ask her out can you help me
i'm 13 in high school and i want to ask out a girl called jessica but theres lots of problems: 1.i'm shy 2.i don't know her 2nd name 3.her friends don't like me 4.i want to ask her to be my girlfriend not on a acually date 5.she has no idea i like her i'm worried i will freak her out. 6.in my school if u get turned down u r a laughing stock for weeks or even months.
Everytime I go to college I see this real pretty girl and I really want to ask hr out I dont know anything about her! But I see her around constantly she probably thinks Im a stalker or something lol but I need to know how to exactly ask her out.
lol im on my psp too but wut u shold do is ask somone else who got a card if she wrote that if not go up to her the last period u see her stop her and say "i kno this might sound alittle weird but r u doin anything this____ if not just say uwant 2 go to the_____" tell me how it works ps if she rejects u just ack lik nuttin happend
Theres this gurl at my sckool an i think she beautiful and all, but i need a few pointers P.S. My mother is always bizzy and also im the oldest child
I got one. There is this girl, me and her were good freinds a few months ago and for some reason we stopped talking. Now i catch her giving me the eye every now and then. Im thinking about asking her to the movies later next week. But im not sure if that would be the best thing to do.I used to get the look. Guys you know what look. Any ideas
OK this is my question, there is this girl who works at the health food store i shop at. she always takes my order at the pre prepped food counter, and i think i recognize that smile and look in her eye that says, "talk to me". i have yet to say anything except hello hows it goin, is it wierd to just come out and ask if she would meet me for drinks? i dont want to be the creepy guy at the store, so that is my dilemma if my mind is playing tricks on me i may be setting myself up for disaster.
alright. Theres this girl(Melanie) in my math class that ive known for a while, but never really talked to her. Now that we started communicating more i keep on thinking about her all the time. Christmas break just started and i plan on maybe asking her out after we get back. The only problem is i got a CRAPLOAD of tests when i get back and exams a few weeks after that. i dunno if its best i ask her out right away or give her and myself some time so that we can be around her more later on when we're not so busy. should i ask her out right away or wait until after exams...any ideas appreciated. ps. we are in the same music class next semester.
yo, i got this girl, she has been my friend since grade five. Now that we're grown up shes soooo hot!! i love her so much but dont know how or when to tell her. Plz help me!!!
p.s. ive never had a gf before lol so...idk lol
omg theres this girl at my school, and we talk over aim and i got her number and ive been wanting to ask her out. i think she is absolutly the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. i really need help on how to strike up a conversation with her and ask her out. im in 8th grade and i think she might kinda like me. now like 5 of my friends are betting against me that she'll say no and that makes me really nervous. now i just need to ask her out but she usually is with her friends and when i see her all i can think about is how beautiful she is and my heart like skips a beat and then beats reeeallly fast. i need help asap!! plz help me...
Well, I really like this girl. I'm in the 8th grade, shes in the seventh. She's from south africa, and I have no clue what to do...I'm not sure if she is the type to do a single date (most the girls arent) I like singles, but I've only had 1 other date....
Hey im Arturo Rivera there is this girl i like Alyssa Moreno, and i want to ask her to the winter dance but my friend says she has a boyfriend. (any advice) P.S. The dance is on friday
ok i havent dated a girl in over 3 years i need some help BIG TIME im firends with all the girls i like but i dont know if they like me :( most of the time other guys get the move befor me and its just stupid im so sick of not having a girl friend when i want one but im to scared ill hurt there feelings or be the biggest loser in school for asking one of them out would you help me please
to late for sounding like an idiot lolz
alright theres hot grl at my skool she has 5 friends that sit with her at lunch i dont want 2 sound like an idiot if i get rejected in front of her frendz i have been holding off on asking her out and i think she knows what should i do need help
Hellow my names Liam, Theres a girl i known for about 2 yrs nearly now cause we did BMX heaps together, Do guitar class together, music class together and speak quite a bit. I'm not sure if i should just go up to her now and ask her out. Finally her knee is getting better from her crash at BMX so we'll be able to hang out more. I might see what movies she likes and go with some m8s, there girl friends and this one I'm gonan ask out. P.S. she is kinda shy and normally we start looking at eachother and start to day dream. Pretty fun. But she normally checking me out and i'm checking her out a bit. Nearly the end of year 8 so i was gonna get her a christmas present thanks c ya Any advice pls e-mail me
address@removedneil to ME it seem likes she like u BUT u need a car for dates lol and anom when she is in a group tell her can i talk to u or theres something i need to tell u n e one of those are fine
anom..ya it is
PS: Is "the look" a sign that the girl likes you? And does noticably louder laughing at your jokes meen anything?
There's this girl in my history class that I'm interested in but I have a few problems with the situation. For one, I'm in college and I have no car since I live on campus. I don't really need it. Also, I'm not sure if she's interested in me or if she has a boyfriend or anything about her yet. She's just cute and nice and funny so far and I've talked to her a few times when I ACTUALLY go to class. I'm planning on asking her out before this semester is over so I can either get through my first rejection or finally have a new person to build a relationship. She seems to flirt with me, in classes when we have a chance to talk in a group, she's always making eye contact with me and we flirty-joke around with each other. I hope thats a good sign but I know plenty of girls that are like that with everyone. This girl seems different. I need advice BAD and soon
Is there a way to not have to ask her in a group of her friends? It seems like she is always hangin' around them. Is there a way to get a 1 on 1 conversation?
jason dont cheat on her if u do u should die and repent ur sins.... ryan... try to get to no her then when U think the moments rite ask her out.... anom try to keep ur kool have good breath good cloths wait for that perfect moment and ask her also try to read all the things i wrote carlitos loves hentai lol is me also
i already hav a gf but then another girl asked me out now my gf is mad at me wat shuld i do
hey my name is shaun and i'm wondering how to ask a girl out. her name is veronica but i hardly know her. should i get to know her b4 i ask her, or can i just walk up to her and ask her. also i see this girl at the mall everytime i go, but i don't know her, how do i ask her. please help me
i really like this girl but i dont know how to ask her out. plz gimme some tips on how to not have to ask her in a big group.
did u try it
EVERY ONE just have to face the fact that life is not fair and life has its ups and downs. u all just have to be brave enough to move along and live life to its fullest!!!!!
calitos.I will use your advice and tell you if it gose well kk
anyone. thats is confusing well im going to help u k. try to c if u no the girl likes u(the one u thinks likes u) and if she does ask her out because if u get 2 no her u might find her VERY attractive.. tell me if ur going to try this.. if u do tell how it goes
their is this girl who i like but also i like this other girl but not as much as the first one and i think she likes me what should i do im so confused.
oh yeah i am 11
to corlitos loves hentai. the man is aslo me but any ways thanks for that advice I really needed that so i i could be back asking again if all dont good so well but wish me luck i am asking her monday.
ok im 13 but i know more than i should so ill help u. 1.the main thing a guy needs is to be brave 2. also u need to no the perfect moment to ask her out 3. if she said no move along 4. if she said yes pick a scary or funny movie u think she wil like and if u take her to a restrant do not eat like a pig or finish ur food before her ...trust me on that one 5. if all goes well dont f@!? it up k......... ps: if never been on a date or had a gf but my advice always work
their is this girl in my school who i really like but i dont know what to say when to ask her or even know how to get the confidece so as long as you guys say something befor next year lol i can use all the help in the world
jay just stay cool and try not to be goffy stand up to her with confidence grab her arm and ravige her lol dont ravige her but be brave and she will say yes if you can say it with confidence.
I really like this girl. Shes in a bunch of my classes at school and we we are pretty much friends. The only thing is ive only really hung out with her in big groups with other friends and im having a tough time getting the courage to ask her out. If anyone has any advice I could really use it.
carlitos love hentai dude give me advice you seem good at it lol. plz read my message from befor i daer say i love that chick more than my life plz plz help dude
i really like this girl and i think she likes me but i realy have no idea I go to waterbury arts magnet school and i see her every period but 5th I never had a girl friend becuse i dont have the courage to ask someine plz plz help if you read this P.S. i would do mostly anything for her
ok so. theres this girl that im going out with. her names susan. i dont like her anymore and shes really mad at me. i have the hotts for one of her best friends. her names rachel. there's a party coming up, and im thinking that i can dump susan and pick up rachel, but im not sure that will go over well on my reputation for later on in my life. also, susan is weird sometimes. she will one day say i hate you and the next day she'll be all over me. whats that about? i dont know what to do. if anyone on this site has advice please emaili to
address@removed...thanksHi. My name is Tim and im sort-of shy. I have a hard time asking girls out because I doubt myself. I get a bit scared at the last second, or get jealous when shes with another guy. I dont know if thats normal or if I need to move to another girl. I really like her, so if someone could help me out I'd really appreciate it. Thx and lets all help each other! PS ( her name is Cami )
Hi. My name is Tim and im sort-of shy. I have a hard time asking girls out because I doubt myself. I get a bit scared at the last second, or get jealous when shes with another guy. I dont know if thats normal or if I need to move to another girl. I really like her, so if someone could help me out I'd really appreciate it. Thx and lets all help each other!
Dude this is like what all da ppl say... i neeed help band man i know this girl named lisa like half a year ago at random at a restraunt i started talkin to her and i liked her so much but i for got her pone numba and email but i got lucky and shes in lik all of my class es this year. thers beeen alot of roumors about me and her and that she has a bf and that they arnt gettin along well but i still cant muster up cofendence. all my friends know her and all her friends know me so i cant talk to any one... help!!!!!!!