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Let’s face it, it might seem like a daunting task to ask the girl you like out on a date. Gathering the courage to walk up to her and ask if she’d like to join you for something. Well have no fear because after reading this how-to guide to asking a girl out, you’ll be a pro. Of course I would recommend you practice asking your mom or sister out for example, to make sure you don’t goof when you ask the girl you really like to go out with you.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what you want to ask the girl out for. Do you want to take her out to the movies, to a restaurant for some of her favorite food (you’ll need to find out what that is before you take her to some spicy food place that will give her indigestion!), to a skating rink, a school dance, a party at a friends’ place, and the list goes on.
Once you know where you want to ask her to go, consider your choice again: will be enjoy watching a live football game with you, while you’re shouting beside her about a referee’s decision? If you think she will be happy to join you for a romantic dinner by candlelight, then great. The reason this is so important is that she might actually want to go out with you, but she might just not be interested in the activity you chose to inviting her to. If she rejects you, you might never have the guts to ask her out again, so don’t make a silly mistake like this one.
Next you need to practice asking her out. This is a very important technique that will really help you to keep your cool when you go up to the girl of your dreams and ask her to join you for a date. Think of what she looks like, how pretty she is, how nice it will be when she says yes to proposition. Whatever you do, don’t think of what might happen if she says no! Just go over how you’re going to ask her out, what you will say, how she will reply and remember to smile. Smiling is something that can be shared between people and it greatly increases the bonds between friends or even strangers. Now that you’ve pictured yourself successfully asking your new girlfriend out, practice out loud. I don’t care if this is embarrassing, if you really want to make sure this girl respects you and says yes to your question, then you need to practice asking her out.
You can ask your mom or sisters to practice with you. She might be able to give you some pointers as to what you should be doing, maybe you shouldn’t fidget with your hands in your pockets and try not to stutter. Once you have some feedback you should go back to practicing a bit more. After you know exactly what you’re going to say and you’ve anticipated what the girl of your dreams will say back to you (make sure she says yes in your fantasies!), then it’s time to prepare a real plan. Find out where she hangs out, when she has free time and when would be the best time for you to ask her out. Now just execute the visual movie you had in your mind, and things will go smoothly.
Remember that she might not actually respond exactly like you had imaged, be prepared for that. Just go with the flow, and be ready to smile widely when she says yes. Now you can ask your new date what she would prefer to do, and if the time of your choice works well for her. That’s it! Once you have practiced enough times, the courage will come naturally and you’ll be asking your girl out in no time. Be sure to treat your new lady friend well, because she didn’t accept to go on a date with you for no reason!
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there is this girl at my church and i gave her a note that says i like her alot and i think i made a mistake i need help and alot of it.
Hi i really like this girl and i asked her out to the school dance and she said i'll think about it. Now i think my plan back fired and now i'll never have a chance with her again. What do i do now? P.S is she going to say no or yes?
i like a girl @ skool, nd she sd 2 me th@ she likes me, but told her m8 th@ she duznt. wot the fek am i sposed 2 bleive nd how do i ask er out nyway? pleeze elp me sum1!!!
ok i like this girl lynnette but heres deal i sit next to her in mi spanish class were good friends i was thinking of asking her to go to movie with me but i get nervouse around her.... im planning on saying hey lynnette i wanted to ask u if u wanted to go see a movie with me? she insnt that popular im ready for rejection cause her freinds always nice to me... she always nice to me but i cant tellif she likes me or not. and im afraid if she says no we wont be friends anymore. i really need help. does anyone think i should not do it or just ask her out in new way? mi names raul :P
hey guys, I like this girl heaps her name is laura morely....and she is really hot......well I think she is but most other people dont, anyways she is in the 'popular group' and I am kinda in the 'nearly popular' group.......but I hardly know her.......I have 5 days b4 i am moving schools and i wanna ask her out b4 i leave.....I am planning on saying....Hi laura this might sound weird but i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me???........I am set up 4 rejection but I will regret it if I dont.......anyone??? help plzzzzzz!!!!
what i ment by touch was TOUCH APPROPRIATELY!(LIKE TOUCH THE ARM) and be confident it is scary at first but hey! how do you think your parents met or all the other kids at school who have girl friends
hey all ya dudes in high school. get to know the girl you like first.dont be scared to touch most girls like that. if you feel comfortable ask for her number and call once and a while when you feel comfortable talking to her about anything ask her out. it worked for me!
Second grade friends, Try Talking to her, if you can't start a converstation I don't know how to help you. Usally Hanging out or just talking to her drops hints if she's going out with some one. If all fails just ask her! Take a shot now, If you wait she might get taken before your very eyes!!! P.S. I have no pointers on how to ask her out, If you get that far, If thats the case I'm in the same pickle!
Well Here's my sad story, I've been out with plenty of girls, and gone to many of places... But... I started my freshman year at SLHS high, I met this totally popular, hot, smart, and everything else kinda girl.(she's also a freshman)[Wendi] I've never had problems talking to girls but Since I met I've wanted to ask her out but I turn red, And just and say simple things like "uh-huh" "yes" and "no" but mostly I just nod and try to hide my blushing. Ever since I met her,I'm like this around all girls, Please can someone give me pointers? I'd really like to ask her out to a movie... Even Some pointers on building up confindence would be nice. P.S. I wanna take a shot before she's taken, please reply Sincerly, Will
plus i think she was giving me signals but i don't know for sure. i think i may have blown it. how do i know where to look for these signals. please help.
okay i like this girl that i've known since the second grade. i'm a junior in highschool and want to ask her out but i fear she may have a boyfriend and i am a very shy person. i really like her and she is different than any other girl. guys help me out here!
Hey whats up im in middle school and there is this one cute girl that I know but im afraid she might be taken already, what should i do?
Hi I'm 12 years old. I wanna ask her out, but her mom never allows to go ut. So what should I do?
Theres this girl i like and i know she likes me back and i havent talked to her for a while and i want to ask her out any tips?
i like this girl shes really cute she just broke up with this other guy i am friends with her friends she knows that i like her i want to ask her to be my girlfriend not out on a date what should i do??? !!! I NEED HELP!!!
I have a crush on a girl in school. I known her for three years and she knows me too. The problem is that my style is not flirting, dancing, or sports. I really like her but I can't ask her. Help!
Hey everyone, heard some good advice on hear, my situation is im just finishing up yr12 (last year before uni) and i realy like this girl called ellie, i would talk to her in business managment and my friend rekons we flirt, but it mite just be bs, anyways i realy like her and i want to ask her out and i could go up to her and ask her out, but the problem is i dont quite know what to say, so far i have this practicaly : hey, how you goin, blah blah blah, hows your study been, blah blah blah, anyways ive realy had a good time this year talkin to you in business this year and maybe youd like to go out sometime: now at this point she either ses no (damn but atleast theres nuthin more to say) or she ses yes and now im screwed, what do i say next, do i say here my number call me sumtime you want to do something (dont like that idea) or ask for her number and il call her (still then i have nothing to say about what to do) do i ask her :so what do you wana do: where do i ask her out, im 18 and just finishing school and cafe i duno about that, and movies is kinda weird (sounds to me like, wow this guy asks me out and now wants to go to the movies to feel me up), if i ask her to come to a party, couple partys goin on since school finishing, then shed probly be goin already and would probly talk to her a little (if i could think of anything to say) and then just go seperate ways, and its not like im gona ask her out to a restaraunt, WERE CAN I ASK HER OUT, OR WHAT CAN I SAY AFTER ASKING HER OUT AND SHE SAYS YES. this is realy holding me back, if i knew what to say after asking her out then id do it tommorrow. its seeming like im gona have to go to a party shes at and get drunk with her ad just randomly hook up (realy dont want to do it that way), but then theres still the problem of then talkin to her again after that night and then what to do with her then, were to go, what to do, PLEASE HELP ME ANYONE, im tired of just hooking up with girls at partys and then never go out with them.
ey Richard you should just ask her out again to the movies or to hang out, and if she says yes then try talkin to her about it there, it sounds as if she likes you since you asked her out to the movies, usualy that means you like them and she would know that, and heres the most simplest of things to know when your askin her, just imagine what it would be like if she says no, and now imagine what it would be like if she says yes and you end up doin what you want to do with her in the future ;)
hey, ive heard some pretty good advice on here so far, so i'd like to ask, how to ask this girl out that i really like. Every time I see her I get all nervous, and can never get out a gd sentence. I've asked her if she wants to go to the movies, but I'm not sure if she thinks just as friends. She keeps givin me 'the look', but I'm just not sure, I'm in my last year of Post 16 at school, and I really want to ask this girl before my chance is up. She's in the year above me and is leavin early next year to go to uni.
Hey everyone, heard some good advice on hear, my situation is im just finishing up yr12 (last year before uni) and i realy like this girl called ellie, i would talk to her in business managment and my friend rekons we flirt, but it mite just be bs, anyways i realy like her and i want to ask her out and i could go up to her and ask her out, but the problem is i dont quite know what to say, so far i have this practicaly : hey, how you goin, blah blah blah, hows your study been, blah blah blah, anyways ive realy had a good time this year talkin to you in business this year and maybe youd like to go out sometime: now at this point she either ses no (damn but atleast theres nuthin more to say) or she ses yes and now im screwed, what do i say next, do i say here my number call me sumtime you want to do something (dont like that idea) or ask for her number and il call her (still then i have nothing to say about what to do) do i ask her :so what do you wana do: where do i ask her out, im 18 and just finishing school and cafe i duno about that, and movies is kinda weird (sounds to me like, wow this guy asks me out and now wants to go to the movies to feel me up), if i ask her to come to a party, couple partys goin on since school finishing, then shed probly be goin already and would probly talk to her a little (if i could think of anything to say) and then just go seperate ways, and its not like im gona ask her out to a restaraunt, WERE CAN I ASK HER OUT, OR WHAT CAN I SAY AFTER ASKING HER OUT AND SHE SAYS YES. this is realy holding me back, if i knew what to say after asking her out then id do it tommorrow. its seeming like im gona have to go to a party shes at and get drunk with her ad just randomly hook up (realy dont want to do it that way), but then theres still the problem of then talkin to her again after that night and then what to do with her then, were to go, what to do, PLEASE HELP ME ANYONE, im tired of just hooking up with girls at partys and then never go out with them.
There is this girl she is beautiful i met her in the nurses and we talked in there until i had to leave , and evrytime we pass she smiles or i smile at her , and once when i was walking i saw her in the class room but saw her show this girl next to her me, i want to ask her to hang out , should i and give me some ideas of were to take her?
There Is this girl (lol..every guys story) and she Is In the 8th grade..Im In the 10th. She Is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen and she wants to go out with me. How exactly do I ask her out? I want to ask her In person but how to I get on the subject of us dating? Thank You
I get really shaky when I ask out a girl. I also get sweaty. What should I do. Should I wait when she is all alone?
i want to ask a girl out but we are realy good friends and i realy like wat sud i do
address@removedoh my goodness! boys boys boys! all of you are so nervous that you have already told yourself that she will say no! heres your mentality :: treat her like your gilrfriend for the next few days (not in a stand offish obvious way, but compliments and holding the door for her etc.) and jus tell yourself she will say yes. dont think of anything or anyone else. you are only involving you and her. oh and NEVER EVER come on too strong on the first date. unless you only want a one week girlfriend
ok there is this girl at my school that I cant stop thinking about.this is the first time I actualy fell in love with one certain girl.she is perfect,hot,smart,athletic etc.my grades are going down since I met her(I was a straight a student but now im a straight d student)cause I cant stop day dreaming about her.I never asked a girl out before.Please help me!!! p.s. her name is rebebcca and im on my psp
theres this girl who i've known since like kindergarten i want to ask her out but i think she thinks im a nerd or a geek and ugly since we've known each other so long like she teases me alot about things that she knows about me and i just cant build the courage to ask but theres a other girl i like she goes to my school but shes a in 8th grade and im afraid she will say no because of that so should i ask her to the school dance or the first girl im confused. p.s. help me quick the dance is on friday
theres this girl i go to school with but shes a grade older then me and im afraid she will say no because of that so should i ask her to the school dance or not
HELP me i like this girl but i dont know if she likes me?I asked her out but she said she dosnt know becuz she likes another kid and the oher kid asked her out first but she hasnt said yes to him what do i do to make her like me more than tis other kid?????
HHHHHHEEEEEELLLLLLLLL PpPpPPPPpp me too, I have the thread above about kristen the amazingly cute-single-8th grade-cheerleader-hasn't been asked out yet I fell asleep kinda a daydream and failed a test cuz I can't stop thinking about her, I can't fuc*in sleep,i can't run in track but I'm too shy to ask her out. I'm not, but a good portion of my freinds are pudgy so I couldent really do the group date thing(I hear some girls saying EEEWWW about a bud of mine)ROFL