Can I Trust My Thai Girlfriend? – Thai Bar Girls
Conduct a quick search around the internet and you’ll be left with the belief that 90%+ of those who’ve formed a relationship with a Thai bar girl would tell you ‘no’, you can’t trust your Thai girlfriend. And I’d been inclined to agree.
But what you can do is always trust a Thai bar girl to be a Thai bar girl.
There are certainly exceptions to any rule and there are without doubt success stories that occur within the Bar girl / Falang dating scene, with solid relationships formed and many proclaiming how they ‘couldn’t be happier’. Although if I’m honest the cynic in me wonders if these are girls who are having all of their needs met (predominantly financially), and whether these same relationships would be so sound if money was not offered freely.
The best that you can usually hope for is that she loves you AND your money equally well, or at least that you rate somewhere on the scale.
She told you that she loved you without doubt, and perhaps she told you that she wanted to be with you ‘always’, maybe marry, have a house and a baby, start a nice little family. And that she’ll wait for you when you return home.
And perhaps you swallowed it hook, line and sinker. You wouldn’t be the first.
Or perhaps in her case she even meant it.
But know that all of them say it.
‘Well from someone who has lived in Thailand for years. Girls in Thailand who expect money from their boyfriends will cheat on you whether you send money or not. This is 100% true with every relationship I have ever seen here.’ – Chris
“You think Thai lady come to Pattaya for love? You crazy” – Common Thai Bar Girl Saying