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So you’re a teenage girl and you want to know how you can attract the attention of that cute teenager guy who sits beside you in class, who is a member of your gym, who mows the lawn for your neighbor or that you saw working at your favorite restaurant. So what are the first steps to getting a guy to notice you? There are three things to consider and they all come together to help you attract the teenage guy of your dreams!
First and most importantly, you need to work on your body language. Teenager guys, and in fact men of all ages, are most attracted to strong and confident looking girls. So try to keep your back straight, stand tall and look straight ahead. This is the stance of the strong and confident people and it really makes you stand out in a crowd. Once you approach the teenage guy you wish to speak to, you should try to mirror his position. So for example, if he is sitting down you should sit down, if he is standing up then do the same. If he is crossing his arms or has his hands in his pockets, try to do the same. Obviously you don’t want him to notice that you are imitating him, but having a sort of symmetry between you and this teen boy will make him more open to your suggestions and make you appear to be more like him. This will give you the open door to let you continue on with some good conversation. Be sure to keep eye contact with him too.
Of course once you’ve got the guy interested in you by the way you respond to his body language you will want to follow up with some intelligent and fulfilling conversation. It would be wise to do some research about topics that would interest this particular teenage guy that you are trying to attract, but if that’s not possible then you can simply go with one of the tried and true subjects: the weather, the location that you’re both in right now, school, television, the news and so on. Don’t be afraid to make your opinions known, guys love a woman who is strong willed and opinionated, who can think on their own. But try not to force your ideas onto him or to forcefully disagree with him because it will make him doubt your similarities and push you away.
Every girl knows that teenage boys are attracted to pretty girls. But even if you don’t believe that you’re a pretty girl you can still do things to improve the way you look, which will in turn make you feel great and make your body language even more power and positive. This works like a cycle and it gives you even more momentum in attracting that cute teen guy. So what can you do to look good in the eyes of teenage guys? First of all you will want to get some clothes that flatter your body shape and in colors that accentuate your eyes. The eyes are often said to be the windows to your soul, and adding a bit of mascara or eye make up can really light up your eyes. Don’t spend too much time stressing over your clothes or hair, but just try your best to look presentable.
Hopefully these tips will help you to more easily attract the attention of the teenage guy you have your eye on! Good luck!
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oh middle school drama, good times, good times, you will all look back in several years and realize how retarded you really were... Just if any of these guys do notice "date",haha, you, keep in mind, you will break up... recently, i had a friend who began dating this boy in 7th grade and they lasted until junior year of high school before they broke up because he was such an @$$ (in case you aren't old enough to know what that means, it's a slightly vulgar synonym for meanie) to her. When you do break up, dont get all depressed and emotional, it's dumb. You also dont want to ruin your friendships with guys now, it does get awkward after you date for a while. I never dated in middle school and I am proud to say so.
hi, im in 8th grade and i reallly like this guy in the same grade. the problem is that girls and boys r seperated!!!! what can i do for him to notice me if i go talk to him every 1 will think im weird! i cant talk to him afterschool because he goes in the bus!!!! what should i do! plzzzzzzzzzzz help!
Hi, Im 13 years old I'm having trouble right know. Theres this guy, he is really nice and funny. But the thing is, he has a bunch of friends, and a lot of them are girls. So, he flirts with girls a lot. Me to sometimes. I really like him in stuff, but it just seems that i cant get him to really like me or notice me as much as the other girls. HELP ME! What should i do to get him to like or notice me like the others?
HI there is this boy and we're friends. He is always teasing me in a friendly way and i am sittin in my lesson and he is lookin at me but looks away when i look up. i like him and do find myself lookin at him but i try to flirt and then he doesn't seem interested i don't know what to do! does he like me or not? i'm hopeless
OMG what the heck is WRONG with you older girls?! I am an older teen but i wasn't born that way and neither were you so be nice and give good advice or shut up! For you younger girls; If you like a guy take Davids advice, if you are a afraid to make a move than of course the guy you like is going to be! The moral of the story is; just ask and if he says no than try that cutie in another class.
i really like this one guy and we went out last year and i just can't get over him. He is such a player but i like him so much. i feel like he likes me again but i am not sure if he just wants a girlfriend, trying to make someone jealous, making a joke out of it with his friends, or he really does like me. Worst thing, i slowed danced with his best friend who is sooo ugly and won't leave me alone. What should i do? i try to get his attention and catch him staring at me but it doesnt seem like enough. Whenever other girls are around (popular girls) and doesn't care about me. Help me win him back!!!!
Hey guys, My story is kinda the same as most. I mean I have kissed a boy that is now in my grade (i kissed him when we were 8) and he came this year into my 6th grade. And... he LUVS my enemy. He wants to ask her out. But my enemy thinks he's creepy. Ugh! Advice please!! (Advice to help me to get into his mind this girl is EVIL!) My next story is... I like this 7th grader. Ofcourse I am in 6th grade and I have been asked out 5 times in like 3 weeks, so I know im not too ugly. Anyways... I am waiting for this 7th grader to ask me out (which wont ever happen cuz he claims he hates me) .... but really at our school halloween carnival he saw me sucking helium out of a balloon. Once I walked away he was gone. So, I went to do something else. I got out of my activity to look for him and I saw him sucking helium out of a balloon. He had copied me!! Does he like me? Should I get up the nerve to ask him out? Ugh! I want to date him so badly! He seems so nice (he's really cute too!) Advice too!!!!
Heyy... my story is kinda diff I met this guy when i was 13yrs old and now i'm 18 and we're still together. but, he's been really acting like a Jack@$$ and i've been putting up with it for a little more then a year now. and i feel that i have barely feeling for him now. and i really like this other guy who is nice to me.. honest.. and like IDK.. this new guy is perfect to me.. what should i do.. should i leave my old boyfriend ot forget this new guy i know im old enought to know the anwser but i wanna know other peoples options